Meet Mehjabeen

Hi, I’m Mehjabeen, you can call me MJ. If you’re here, you’ve probably spent too long explaining yourself to people who weren’t really listening. I’m the opposite. I ask questions, then follow-ups, then “but why?” (usually more than once), because the real answers always live a layer or two down.

About My Background

Trust is built in small moments, so before we dig into your story, here's a little of mine.

I'm a Psychologist and Couple Therapist, and honestly, I got here almost by accident. I've always been the person people talk to, the one who notices the thing nobody said out loud. Psychology just gave that instinct a name and a method.

I grew up in a loud, loving family: a mum who runs the house like a Chief Operations Officer, a dad who's the chief advisor, an older brother who hands out advice you didn't ask for, and a younger one who'll roast you before you finish your sentence. They taught me strength, resilience, and that the people around you are the whole point. I'm in Bangalore now, I miss them daily, and I bring all of that to this work.

Why I Love What I Do

Because other people's stories are where I learn the most about life. Every person I sit with teaches me something, and matchmaking is that at its best: you get to understand someone deeply, and then use that understanding to change their life.

I also think the search for love has gotten far too serious for its own good. I'd rather we laugh, overthink together (I made peace with my overthinking as a teenager), and get to the truth faster because neither of us is pretending.

Fun Facts About Me

🍬 I don't run on tea or coffee. I run on sweets. Guilty pleasure, zero guilt.

🎭 Humour is my coping mechanism and my love language. If I'm not being a little dramatic, something's wrong.

✏️ I sketch, mostly anime-inspired. Yes, I watch a lot of anime. No, I won't be taking questions.

🌅 Sunset chaser. If the sky is doing something, I've already stopped whatever I was doing to photograph it.

🐈 Cat person to my core. I'm fairly sure I'm a cat in human form. Mine likes to sit in the freezer; I've stopped asking why.

👗 Self-appointed fashion diva of my family. No outfit leaves the house without my sign-off.

🛌 And I believe in the art of doing nothing. Some evenings the plan is bed, music and silence, and that's a complete plan.

Meet the Crew

How Our Clients Found Their Person

From the first curated introduction to forever, discover how our expert matchmakers helped them navigate the journey and find a partner who truly matched their world

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I went through a divorce that lasted almost four years, and after being out of the dating world for over a decade, I came across The Date Crew. The onboarding felt like handing over the wheel to an experienced crew while I stayed captain of my own ship. They guided me through every step without ever overstepping, and Oendrila herself would respond personally if needed. My match is set, and my wedding date is fixed for November.

Abhiran
IT, Bangalore

TDC helped me break free from the idea that my partner had to live nearby. Their coaching made me reconsider what really mattered, values and emotional alignment. I met my husband in Singapore, married within months. TDC helped me unlearn old patterns and choose right.

Shefali
31, Tech Recruiter, Gurgaon

Dating abroad with anxious attachment was tough. TDC helped me meet enough people, reflect after dates, and slowly rewire how I approach connection. I stopped chasing, found confidence, and now attract the kind of partner I really want, with more clarity and peace.

Anisha
31, Data Scientist, Germany

I used to push away the right people out of fear. TDC kept me focused on feelings, not just checklists. Their guidance helped me open up, and I married my match. In 2024, we had a baby boy. I’m grateful TDC believed in me as I learned to believe in love.

Debesh
33, Strategy Head, Jakarta
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