Meet Jessica

If you've found your way here, chances are you've had enough of dating that feels like a job interview. I'm Jess, and I promise this won't feel like that. The right conversation, with real honesty and a well-timed joke, can change everything. That's what we'll do here. Figure out what you actually want, laugh or cry a little along the way, and find you someone who feels like home.

About My Background

Trust is built in small moments, so before we get to your story, here's a little of mine.

I'm from a small city in Mumbai who spent the early years of her career on cruise ships, bouncing between the islands with a crew where I was the only Indian woman. That's where I learned to read people quickly, across cultures, languages and accents. (I can place almost any accent within a sentence now. It's a party trick.)

In many Indian homes, the container is quietly sacred. The steel dabba that carries a warm lunch across the city, the old barni holding pickle through a monsoon, the spice box with its small, well-worn compartments, even the humble Tupperware that has outlived three moves. Each one holds something without changing it, keeps it safe, and gives it a place to rest until it's needed.

This is how I think of my role as a therapist. I am a container for whatever you need to bring: the grief you haven't said aloud, the anger that feels too big, the thoughts that don't make sense yet, the parts of your story that feel too heavy or too tender to carry alone. You don't have to tidy them up or sort them first. Some things need to be held before they can be understood, and I can hold what you need me to.

If you are searching for a relationship or a marriage match, that might include family expectations, the fear of choosing wrong, or the quiet question of whether you are enough. Here, you can make room for all of it and get clearer about what kind of partnership feels like yours.

Why I Love What I Do

I know what a good relationship does for a person. I'm in one, and it has made every scary decision in my life feel a little smaller. I want that for you, a best friend, a confidant, someone who lovingly rage baits you and still keeps you falling.

It is my belief that love and healing both need conversation. If every conversation about your love life so far has felt heavy, clinical or exhausting, we're going to change that. I'll ask the real questions, I'll encourage curiosity and reflection while you answer them, and I'll listen to the things you say and especially don't say in between.

Fun Facts About Me

🌊 Through-and-through water baby (I'm a Pisces, so it tracks). Any ocean, lake or pool, I'm in, no questions asked. I've gone snorkelling in clear skies and watched storms a little too closely, and I find both peaceful.

🌮 I cook every single day, and my favourite food isn't Indian. It's Mexican, and it has been since my first proper taco in Mexico. I find it oddly comforting to create something.

🤓 I am a massive nerd, as my partner claims. I love learning about anything and everything.

🏝️ Climbed a waterfall in Jamaica, ziplined over the ocean in Haiti, and fell in love with Spain while the ship was in for repairs.

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How Our Clients Found Their Person

From the first curated introduction to forever, discover how our expert matchmakers helped them navigate the journey and find a partner who truly matched their world

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I went through a divorce that lasted almost four years, and after being out of the dating world for over a decade, I came across The Date Crew. The onboarding felt like handing over the wheel to an experienced crew while I stayed captain of my own ship. They guided me through every step without ever overstepping, and Oendrila herself would respond personally if needed. My match is set, and my wedding date is fixed for November.

Abhiran
IT, Bangalore

TDC helped me break free from the idea that my partner had to live nearby. Their coaching made me reconsider what really mattered, values and emotional alignment. I met my husband in Singapore, married within months. TDC helped me unlearn old patterns and choose right.

Shefali
31, Tech Recruiter, Gurgaon

Dating abroad with anxious attachment was tough. TDC helped me meet enough people, reflect after dates, and slowly rewire how I approach connection. I stopped chasing, found confidence, and now attract the kind of partner I really want, with more clarity and peace.

Anisha
31, Data Scientist, Germany

I used to push away the right people out of fear. TDC kept me focused on feelings, not just checklists. Their guidance helped me open up, and I married my match. In 2024, we had a baby boy. I’m grateful TDC believed in me as I learned to believe in love.

Debesh
33, Strategy Head, Jakarta
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